Hugo, as long as you've been a member here I would have hoped that you learned NOT to take the advice of people who have ONLY dealt with NON-acoustic construction; from your descriptions, I would say that it won't matter if you add TWELVE more layers of ANYTHING because your main problem is FLANKING sound at this point.
At nearly every turn, you've decided NOT to isolate (I do NOT mean INSULATE) parts of your construction that SHOULD have been - and now, you're surprised that you're hearing a
130 dB band in other rooms than the one they're playing in??!?
As I've suggested several times, you need to SLOW DOWN and LEARN before you build.
In the REFERENCE section, there is a large PDF document from our very helpful Canadian friends at the IRC - although it deals with WOOD construction, keep this in mind - concrete is an even BETTER sound conductor (for flanking noise) than WOOD, which was the main study of this document. Still, I think if you read through at least the summaries of
http://irc.nrc-cnrc.gc.ca/fulltext/rr103/rr103.pdf
it will clear up where most of your sound leakage problems are coming from.
Again, remember -
A gypsum wall installer is NOT an acoustician.
A framing carpenter is NOT an acoustician.
A Concrete contractor is NOT an acoustician.
A Painter is NOT an acoustician.
A Brick layer is NOT an acoustician.
So if you're going to take ALL those people's advice about soundproofing and acoustics, WHY DO YOU EVEN BOTHER COMING HERE?
If I sound just a bit irritated, it's because I AM - the MAIN reason I do this at all is so that OTHERS don't have to endure the ANGUISH I went through after finding out 20+ years ago that the rooms I THOUGHT I was building were NOT EVEN CLOSE to being as soundproof as I'd intended. So, when I have to read about people who've ALREADY BUILT and THEN ask for advice, it causes me MORE anguish, which is painful enough when that person DIDN'T KNOW BETTER and just found this (or other) forum.
But when I have to explain these things AFTER construction to someone I've already advised to SLOW DOWN AND LEARN MORE, it gets REALLY frustrating.
I'm sorry I'm sounding so mean and cranky here, but I'm 60 years old and only have so much energy (it's never enough) - so I hate to waste it on people who WON'T LISTEN... Steve
Soooo, when a Musician dies, do they hear the white noise at the end of the tunnel??!? Hmmmm...