flynn wrote:I want my materials to be cheap or free. AND FIRE RATED; since I just watched my neighbor's house go up in flames, I'm being very code conscious in this old Brooklyn/Williamsburg house.
I'm glad to see a fellow "code conscious" person here.

I get ribbed a bit here for being "the worry wart" about code compliance (and I'm
by no means a code expert).
That being said . . . The photos are proof that you've already begun construction by way of demolishing the existing party wall. I'm pretty certain
that's illegal -- you've destroyed most of the fire protection between you and your neighbor!

Now, I realize you have to break a few eggs if you're going to make an omelette . . . But starting construction without a building permit is illegal, and I can't imagine you could get a permit without having detailed plans to present to your municipality for approval.
I would be more sympathetic if you just poked a large enough hole to inspect the anatomy of your existing construction. That's something that could be easily patched. It's not "the point of no return," where you are now.
I'm fairly certain that you've put a lot of people at risk so far -- you, your neighbors, and your landlord, whose hazard insurance
may refuse to provide coverage if something really bad happens and it can be proven that you were doing construction without a permit.
I realize "there's no turning back now," so your best bet is probably to get things "safe" as quickly as possible. That means
not showing these photographs when you get your permit.

In fact, now that I think about it, I believe it is
your landlord who will need to secure the permit, because
he (or she) is the homeowner!
And the municipality may have restrictions on a "homeowner" construction permit, in that either the
homeowner must do the work himself, or a
licensed contractor must do the work. (You mentioned that you install home theaters for a living -- are you a "licensed contractor"?)
If (gasp!) you weren't planning to get a permit, realize that most municipalities can levy
substantial fines if they find out, even after construction is complete . . . And they can
still require the entire job to be
destroyed so that they can
inspect each stage of construction to ensure code compliance.
I realize I'm putting you on the spot here, and I'm drawing attention to things for which you didn't seek advice or comment . . . But I feel a moral obligation to warn you
and others -- especially in multi-family construction cases -- that there are
huge risks to demolishing now and planning later.
OK... Lecture's over (for now). Now let's move on to some of your questions.
. . . I need to use an insulation to make sure they can't hear anything . . .
YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!
Ordinarily I'd say . . .
HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!!!
. . . but given your "I've already started it and put many people at risk" situation (oh-oh, lecture creeping in again!), it's too frustrating to be funny.
There is no such thing as "insulation to make sure they can't hear anything."
The
best insulation, I think (others may disagree), given your situation, is
Thermafiber Sound Atteuation Fire Blankets (SAFB) - Nominal Density (2.5 pcf) or
Roxul Acoustical Fire Batt (AFB) - ≥2" (2.5 pcf). The "two and a half pounds per cubic foot" weight of this stuff makes it ideal for applications such as this, and it will also satisfy your firephobic tendencies. However, it isn't cheap or free. Prepare to spend some cash on this.
I'm guessing that neither you nor your landlord will tolerate much of a square footage loss to build a true "room within a room," so you'll probably have to resort to hanging multiple layers of gypsum wallboard (a.k.a. "sheet rock") on resilient channel (i.e., "RC").
Yikes -- you also have to figure out a way to "beef up" the neighbor's wall (your "outer leaf"). With that plaster-and-lath situation you've got going I don't know how to advise you there. Maybe slapping on a couple of layers of plaster will help.
Do you have neighbors below you as well?
Finally, have you read and followed all of the guidelines in
the "Before You Post" announcement? Including everything in the
Reference Area? I'm thinking you have a long way to go to learn about what soundproofing
is and what it
isn't -- and given your "no turning back now" situation, you need to read and learn all you can
fast.
That's all the time I have this morning. Good luck.
--Keith